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How to Know if a Friendship Is of God

Question:

Throughout life you meet so many people. Is there a meaning behind who we encounter in life? Say I just met a really nice person, and I’d like to get to know her. How would you be able to know it is God’s plan to have you pursue friendships with people?

Answer:

I would encourage you not to overthink it. If someone comes into your life, accept that God has at least permitted it for some reason. As for pursuing a friendship and possibly more, the maxim of St. Augustine will guide you well: “Love and do what you will.” And if you have any questions on what loving truly is on specific issues, examine the Catechism of the Catholic Church’s treatment in part three of the Ten Commandments. And consult a faithful priest as needed.

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