I Returned to the Church—Am I Free to Marry?

I’m not exactly sure what you mean by “outside married.” If you mean “outside marriage” and that you were never married to the father then, yes, you are free to be married in the future.

If you mean you were married outside the Church, then the answer depends on several circumstances:

• If you were baptized as a Catholic at the time of your marriage and were married outside the Church without a dispensation, then the marriage was invalid. You would, in these circumstances, be free to marry.
• If you were baptized as a non-Catholic and married a Catholic outside of the Church without a dispensation, then the marriage would be invalid, since the Catholic party was obligated to be married in the Church. In these circumstances, you would be free to marry.
• If you were baptized as a non-Catholic and married a baptized non-Catholic, you would have entered into a valid sacramental married. In these circumstances, you would need to apply for an annulment in order to be free to marry.
• If you were a non-baptized person who married a baptized non-Catholic, you would have entered into a valid natural marriage. In these circumstances you could apply for a Pauline privilege to have the natural marriage dissolved and then be free to marry.