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L e t t e r s
MOTHER SI, FATHER NO

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This Rock
Volume 5, Number 11
November 1994
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THANK you for the article defending Mother
Angelica ["Bashing Mother Angelica," September 1994]. I
feel sure you agree with me that Mother doesn't need defending--she
does a pretty good job of defending herself! My personal opinion--it
is pure jealousy. Here is a nun with a high school education, from
a broken home, who has accomplished what was or is impossible for
some bishops and priests to accomplish--most of whom have a string
of letters after their names. What comes through loud and clear for
me from EWTN is a deeper spirituality, something I have been
unable to find in parish churches. I hunger and thirst for this spirituality
which has been denied me.
Grace A. Tribur
St. Paul, Minnesota
Fr. Schroth's problem
THE article on Mother Angelica was right
on the mark. Unlike Mr. Keating, I do have cable and am a regular
EWTN watcher. In fact, were it not for EWTN, I would
attach my television set behind my car and drag it down a well-peopled
thoroughfare.
For years I made my living teaching music one-on-one. It did not take
me long to become aware of two things: (1) my subject was easy to
teach, since I knew it well, and (2) my students were hard to teach,
since each required a unique formatting and presentation to learn
the same things. To teach effectively I had to understand my student
as well as I understood my subject.
Not only has Mother Angelica and her crew kept these concepts well
in mind, they have employed them with imagination, style, and success.
They know what they are teaching, whom they are teaching, and why
they are teaching. They provide a wide variety of spiritual milk,
spiritual steak, and everything in between.
Among the glad partakers are priests, religious, converts, the converting,
the back-slidden, lapsed Catholics, Protestants, children, families,
teens, and singles. No doubt some bishops tune in and frequently participate
in what Fr. Raymond Schroth characterizes as EWTN's spiritual
programming for idiots. I admit, however, that I have never seen anything
on EWTN which might appeal to heterodox university theologians.
Mother seems to have missed them altogether.
I take issue with Fr. Schroth's mention of the "hatred"
he seems to see and hear on EWTN. I have watched a lot of
its programs and never found any hate or meanspiritedness in the programming
or the presenters. Perhaps the hatred Fr. Schroth senses is hatred
not unlike those who despised God's prophets when they came with messages
filled with unpleasant corrections and reproofs. Those who heard the
prophets' words with a resentful, bad will were self-deceived into
thinking the words were said in hate. But the source of the hatred
was in the hearts of the recipients of the messages.
My suspicion is that what really bothers Fr. Schroth is not the inclusive
range of EWTN's programming, which is diverse, or the formatting,
which is varied, but the exclusiveness of its content: clear and consistent
presentation of the authentic teaching of the Roman Catholic Church,
nothing more, nothing less.
Tom Ridenour
Kenosha, Wisconsin
His slips, our slip
SOMEONE sent me the NCR article on
Mother Angelica, and I was irate. I wrote a postcard to Fr. Schroth,
pointing out two incorrect statements about people seen on EWTN.
Briege McKenna is not a Carmelite, but a Poor Clare. Fr. Kenneth Roberts
is from England, not an Australian (I was sorry you let that slip
by you). Then I told him I hoped that as a professor of journalism
he would be more careful in checking his facts. My last sentence ran
something like this: "The reason Mother Angelica is so popular
is because most good Catholics are sick and tired of the pope bashing
and ridicule that is coming from `educated' Catholics who should know
better. I was surprised to receive a postcard reply, thanking me for
my comments, but no comments from him.
Sr. Mary Joachim Oberkoetter, OSB
Tulsa, Oklahoma
Maria Monk redivivus
SPEAKING to a friend about the Catholic faith,
he told me a story which compels me to ask two questions, one of which
will be helpful to many Catholics who are interested in apologetics.
My friend said his father told him that he was called to a Catholic
church in Los Angeles around 1938 to fix the plumbing. Upon entering
the church, he was blindfolded and led downstairs. While working in
the long corridor, he saw cells with half-starved men and, looking
for a bathroom, discovered a room full of guns and ammunition.
Have you heard such a story and, more importantly, not believing it
myself, how should one answer without offending anyone, especially
someone who is sure his dad would not lie?
Martin Petrencik
Corcoran, California
Editor's reply:
I take it your friend's father never reported this
incident to the police--or even to his Protestant pastor, who
certainly would have reported it to the police. Which Los Angeles
parish was it? There weren't too many in 1938, so it shouldn't be
hard to track down. Although I was brought up in Southern California,
I never saw a parish, at least not an old parish, in which one could
be taken downstairs. Because of earthquakes, few buildings here have
basements, and fewer still have basements with long corridors. So
where is this mysterious church?
And what is the answer to the mystery of the silence
of your friend's father? If he had stumbled across an arms cache hidden
by the Nazis or by organized crime, wouldn't he have reported it to
the police? So why did he remain silent about the "room full
of guns and ammunition"? And, if he had a heart, why wouldn't
he have done something to free those "half-starved men"?
Yes, we've heard stories like this before; they probably
were old when Maria Monk wrote her silly and quite false book in the
nineteenth century, the book that claimed that tunnels connected rectories
to convents and that the tunnels were lined with the graves of children
born from illicit unions between priests and nuns.
Your friend's father may have been influenced by such
hoary stories, and perhaps his imagination, in his later years, played
him false--or he may have been an outright liar. Either way, your
friend will be offended, I suppose.
Filial loyalty is a fine virtue, but not when it comes
at the expense of common sense. Let's face it: Your friend's father
was either a liar or a crank--maybe both.
Comrade!
JUST a thought for one of your back covers.
How about a celebrity impersonation of Karl Marx? The quotation could
go something like this: "Hi, my name is Karl Marx, and I invented
godless communism. (Is it me or is it hot in here?) If only This
Rock had been around in my day, the world might have been a different
place. Lenin might have been an assistant manager in a tractor factory,
and Stalin might have finished his seminary studies--and Gorby
could have gotten a job driving the popemobile. So, up with the proletariat,
send ice water, and subscribe to this magazine!"
Robert E. Brennan
Van Nuys, California
Undone by false premise
AS a physicist, I have learned from attempting
to solve hundreds of problems that very often I am absolutely stumped.
I cannot see any errors in my logic, even after going over and over
the steps, yet my result is not correct. At that point I have to put
the work aside and take a break, and when I return I begin again,
starting with my very first premise.
More times than I wish to admit, it is my first assumption that is
wrong, albeit all the remaining steps hold logically from the first
incorrect premise. So it is with the letter written by Thomas M. Walton
in the September 1994 issue regarding the assumed relativistic nature
of morality. I am a slow, careful reader. I read the first sentence
of his letter three times, and then I simply had to say, No, it is
not true that the quality of moral actions is the sum total of the
actions' effects. This is the lie that the world teaches. This is
the principle of moral relativism.
Mr. Walton states that it is "simply not true" that the
"morality of an action is determined by some quality innate in
the action."
Relativism in morality is perhaps the most serious error of modern
times. It is the lie of Satan mixed with bits of truth that leads
us to destruction. We justify our lack of obedience by excusing ourselves
with reasons that attempt to make us feel good or that appeal to our
intellectual pride. But God's wisdom is given to the poor and outcast
as well as to the intellectually rich. The gifts of the Holy Spirit,
including wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, are not found in textbooks
by certain modern theologians; they are free gifts to those who humbly
seek them in prayer. Society's false wisdom rationalizes man's disobedience
of God's moral law by stating that certain actions "hurt no one"
or that the actions are qualified by circumstances.
Let us consider the Scripture passages Mr. Walton uses to defend moral
relativism (Matt. 22:34-40, Rom. 13:10, Gal. 5:14). In each of these
we are reminded that love is the greatest and first commandment. Does
this justify disobedience? Do we love God by disobeying his commandments?
Jesus reminds us in John 14:15, "If you love me you will keep
my commandments." Mr. Walton should throw away his first, false
premise and allow himself to be free to hear Jesus' voice.
Doug Menietti
Iowa City, Iowa
Pray for her daughter
THE article by David C. Morrison ["Out
of the Closet and into Chastity," July/August 1994] is absolutely
wonderful! I have already shared it with several people. Is it possible
to buy reprints?
I am the mother of a declared lesbian, and I have steadfastly held
to the Catholic position for the past nine years. It took me seven
years to find some kind of peace. Part of my problem was that my family
and friends that I confided in were not Catholic and couldn't understand
why I was so "rigid." Mr. Morrison's article says it perfectly.
I must admit, though, that it was a failure when I shared it with
my daughter, who lives in San Francisco. She is not interested in
seeing any more articles like that. Please pray for her--and for
me and my spiritual director. We are in the process of trying to start
a Courage group here.
Verda L. Redman
Carmel, Indiana
Editor's reply:
We're pleased you found the article useful, even if
your daughter hasn't (yet). At least you planted a seed by sharing
the article with her. You never know what will come of it. Unfortunately,
we do not have reprints available, but, given the importance of Mr.
Morrison's article, you and other readers are at liberty to make photocopies
for private distribution (but not for resale), provided you give attribution
to This Rock. We would be happy to see the article more widely
disseminated, since there is so little defending and explaining the
Church's position on homosexuality and homosexual acts. We'll keep
you, your daughter, and your spiritual director in our prayers.
Schaeffer fils
YOUR article on how Francis Schaeffer's exhortation
to his Evangelical friends points right to Rome ["Really There,"
July 1994] is more on target than you revealed. While Schaeffer died
an Evangelical, his son, Frank (formerly "Franky") Schaeffer,
converted to Eastern Orthodoxy and is now one of its more prominent
spokesmen. I believe that his journey to the true Church will not
end until he arrives at Rome, but his conversion emphasizes that his
father unwittingly demolished the foundations of his own Evangelical
faith.
Frank Schaeffer now publishes a newspaper called The Christian
Activist: A Journal of Orthodox Opinion. It is designed to gently
entice other Christians into Eastern Orthodoxy and is sent free to
subscribers. What a marvelous idea--we should adopt this technique,
culling addresses from Evangelical address lists and publishing a
newspaper deconstructing popular myths and planting seeds of the true
faith. I believe that a few rays of light, even if brief, would do
much to dispel the darkness of error and to disarm anti-Catholicism.
Eric Ewanco
Framingham, Massachusetts
Bible Belt prof isolated
A RECENT article in This Rock reminds
me of my daughter Anne's experiences as a graduate student at North
Carolina State: a lonely little Roman in the Bible Belt. One day her
teacher in an advanced course on Tudor and Stuart history was trying
to make theological aspects of the period relevant. He asked if there
were any Catholics in the class. My daughter raised her hand and found
herself the only one. Scores of stern Protestant eyes swiveled in
her direction. She wondered if they were about to drag her outside
and burn her.
"Tell me, Ms. Miesel," asked the professor, "Do you
lie awake at night worrying about transubstantiation?"
"No, sir."
He tried another tack to break the tension. He asked if any students
had at least attended a Catholic service. Several had. They denounced
the Mass as "pomp," "idolatry," and "saint-worship."
Finding the Puritan mind alive and well was a bit too much for the
professor, a High Church Episcopalian. He quickly changed the subject.
I've equipped Anne and her sister, who lives in Chattanooga, with
copies of your excellent Pillar of Fire, Pillar of Truth.
The latter daughter has at least persuaded her Baptist co-workers
that Catholics respect and read the Bible too.
Sandra Miesel
Indianapolis, Indiana
Vineyard to Eucharist
MY wife and I have returned to the Church
after 14 years at the Vineyard Christian Fellowship. While we continue
to enjoy our wonderful friendships and occasional visits there, we
are both very happy to be back home. Our time at the Vineyard was
wonderful, and we return to the Church with a deep love of God's Word.
But after four years of struggling with that still, small Voice, we
left our children and almost all our friends to return to the Mass
and the Eucharist. We've been back a year and are involved in the
Eucharistic ministry, and I am playing in the music ministry at St.
Bernadine of Siena in Woodland Hills, California.
Our children thought we were crazy at first. But after a year they
realize that we are not worshiping Mary, have not filled our home
or lawn with statues of anybody, and we continue to love the Lord
Jesus with all our hearts. My secret, silent prayer is that someday
they might follow, but I rest in the knowledge that they already have
a relationship with Jesus where they are now.
I'll close by adding that I subscribed to This Rock for two
years before we actually returned to the Church. You were very instrumental
in the process. I devour every issue.
Denny Bouchard
Canoga Park, California
More Hunt-ing ammo
I WONDER when Dave Hunt will give it up ["Hunt-ing
the Whore of Babylon," September and October 1994]. Another new
book from him in the same negative direction! The best arguments against
him are not from Catholic sources (which is a good thing, since otherwise
they might be disqualified by non-Catholic readers as biased), but
from within the Reformed/Protestant camp itself. There are well-researched
and soundly-argued books that refute Hunt: Last Days Madness,
by Gary DeMar (American Vision); The Days of Vengeance: An Exposition
of the Book of Revelation, by David Chilton (Dominion Press);
Before Jerusalem Fell and The Beast of Revelation,
both by Kenneth Gentry (Institute for Christian Economics).
Hunt knows these authors well--they've been giving him a hard
time for quite a while now, but he just keeps on repeating the errors
they have proven him to have. He just won't learn. Maybe some of your
readers will find these books helpful.
Max S. Weremchuk
Obrigheim, Germany
Tomayto, tomahto
I DISAGREE with Mr. Keating's explanation
for not holding hands in church while praying the Our Father ["Letters,"
May 1994]. We are constantly told that our parish is our community
and that we are brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ. We should reach
out to one another during Mass to foster this feeling of community
and unity. If we can't reach out to our fellow parishioners in love
and acceptance, then how can we reach out to those outside our parish
who need our help? It takes a bit of courage to decide to extend a
hand to the stranger sitting next to us at Mass, but, once it is done,
a real sense of community is felt by all.
Paula R. Ferraro
Burlington, Kentucky
Editor's reply:
I simply don't think that authentic community is fostered
by having strangers hold hands for thirty seconds. Yes, we should
"reach out to our fellow parishioners in love and acceptance,"
but I've always taken that metaphorically; I've never thought it meant
I had to be a hand-holder.
Does it take "a bit of courage to extend a hand
to the stranger sitting next to us at Mass"? I don't think so,
since I do so at each Mass during the sign of peace. I don't think
it takes any courage at all to allow oneself to be bullied into holding
hands while praying. I think the courage arises when you say, "Thank
you, but I don't hold hands when I pray."
Why should we force people to hold hands during the
Our Father when that custom does not come from Catholic (or Protestant!)
tradition, when it undermines the significance of the immediately-following
sign of peace, and when it is an unnatural custom? Shaking
hands is natural for adults in our culture; holding hands
with strangers is not.
If I can summarize my opposition to the practice,
I would make three points: (1) the practice is a novelty and doesn't
fit the liturgy; (2) by its nature it leaves many who don't want to
hold hands with the feeling they have been bullied into doing something
they find meaningless or awkward; and (3) it really doesn't do anything
to foster community, since community is not fostered by such artificial
action. (I call it artificial because, unlike shaking hands in greeting,
no one in our culture--or any culture I know of--goes around
holding hands with adult strangers.) You're free to disagree with
me on this, but I think your proper concern for openness to others
has overpowered your appreciation of the real defects in the practice.
The problem was race
I WANT to thank all of you who work on the
presentations on the tapes, the writers of the pamphlets and books,
and the entire staff. As a result of your work I have had the courage
to come back to the Church after 24 years of being away. The tragedy
of being away was in part a result of my ignorance. I left because
the priest did not believe in interracial marriages and did not want
to marry us for this reason. My husband's Methodist background was
never the issue.
For years I went to churches of any type, as long as we felt welcomed
as a mixed family. Sad to say, at times it was not easy. Recently
we moved, and I found a small charismatic prayer group in a local
parish. I joined and found them loving and welcoming. Through this
group I picked up every magazine, pamphlet, and piece of paper that
came my way. One day I came across information on you.
I have ordered several tapes, books, and now a video. I have to say
that all you have offered has played a large part in giving me courage
to go back and say, "This is enough." Life has changed in
this country racially, and your information has given me and now my
husband a truth that he just cannot deny. He became very much a Fundamentalist
in his views, but I was not in agreement with him because of my background.
After much reading and sharing with my family, my son, who just turned
18, independently has completed the RCIA program and has received
his First Communion and confirmation, just one week before leaving
for college. Now my husband, with help through a new priest in my
parish, has committed to becoming a Catholic. There have been many
other inputs in this walk, but yours has been foundational.
Karen E. Shields-Wright
Greenwich, Connecticut
Stop sending propaganda
I DECIDED that it was time that I dropped
you a line. I hope that it doesn't fall on deaf ears, but I fear that
it will.
For some time now my wife and I have received your magazine and various
newsletters. Unbeknownst to you, my wife and I would probably be considered
"anti-Catholic" by your standards. Many years ago my wife
left the Catholic Church when she was presented with the truth about
the gospel and about Jesus Christ. Not only that, but she was frustrated
with the truth about our relationship to God through Christ, which
Catholics do not understand. Some anonymous member of her family signed
us up for your publication, hoping to "bring her back to the
truth," I suppose. But this will never happen, since she has
found, as have I, that, ultimately, it's not about church, but about
Jesus Christ. But we know that the Catholic Church was not founded
by Jesus but by the Roman authority. Of course, you think we're crazy,
but that's okay.
I know this letter will not be taken seriously. I'm sure that all
of you will write it off as just another letter from another anti-Catholic
"wacko." Anway, please stop sending us your propaganda.
It shows how afraid and intimidated you are by Evangelicals.
James A. Deskins
Columbus, Ohio
Editor's reply:
Actually, I think what you call our "propaganda"
shows how concerned we are that Evangelicals embrace theological and
historical truth, such as the truth that the Catholic Church existed
long before "Roman authority" legalized it in the fourth
century. (I take it you have not yet read John Henry Newman's Essay
on the Development of Christian Doctrine; it would disabuse you
of the notion that the Catholic Church was a late arrival.) Your basic
mistake, I think, is in positing a conflict between Christ and his
Church. In fact, the two must go together, but you're willing to accept
only one of them. Too bad.
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